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For Love or Money!

Couple reasons for this post…..1: Siti & Datuk K and well…we’ll see how the first one goes ;)

Why in the world would a young, attractive and successful girl like Siti tie the knot with well something thats definitely not my idea of a fairtale story……what is happening to women nowadays????

Why is it that more and more women are merely drawn by the idea of marrying for financial security!? Its sad…it really is. From talking to friends (girls) somehow they feel that true love does not hold up and that at least with money…thats something they can hold on 2 no matter what happens…and by “what” they usually mean their husbands turning to someone younger like our Datuk K. Isn’t it possible to “live happily ever after?”

Hmmm…I’m not a dreamer….but still I would like to believe that someday I’m going to marry the girl of my dreams and love, care and be with her til the day we die…sounds corny?? Hahahah…maybe but for me, I’d refuse to marry unless I felt that way (and I do)…

Is money important? Definitely coz how would I be able to “love, care and be” with her (and my family) if I can’t take care of myself. A balance is good….too much wealth does corrupt and hell yeah, it complicates things. But hey, you can’t have it all.

So what about Siti…..why did she marry someone’s husband, someone’s father? hmmmm….honestly i don’t get it. Will their marriage last? maybe….will she be happy? I hope so but I don’t think so. Will he be loyal? Don’t know the guy but apparently he has some kind of reputation…dunno lah.

Would you marry Siti? I wouldn’t…..I prefer a simple and private life. Is it difficult for her to find a man? No but its probably hard to find a man her age that:

  1. she can look up 2
  2. is not intimidated by who she is
  3. compete with her wealth
  4. is genuine about her
  5. she is attracted and drawn to (women are drawn to macam2)

SECOND reason:
Money comes n goes, hahahaha even AF comes n goes but….the person I’ll share my life with is ONE! Like they say…the best things in life are FREE :)…and I found what I’ve been looking for…need I say more? ;)

Kevin Zahri

I am a US certified personal trainer and nutritionist with over 12 years experience. Over the years, I have published over 10 books, written for Men’s Health, other fitness and lifestyle magazines, hosted TV shows and appeared on various TV shows, programs and magazines. I am also an avid corporate wellness speaker and web entrepreneur.

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170 comments

  • Kev..this is merely my opinion, and not my intention to disparage anyone.. Well, I will try to make this short. Anyway it seems that many young women nowadays (Gals, take note, it’s “many”, not “all”) goes for financial security when it comes to marriage. Maybe to some of them, they just don’t like to go through any troubles by risking themselves in a conjugality with young guys who are still financially unstable. In CT’s case, do you really think it’s really love that coalesces them together? Well, maybe, if any, that love plays its role but I doubt that is the main reason for tying the knot. I guess it’s mostly because of his wealth. Do you think CT would go for someone who earns lesser than what she makes? I don’t think so. By the way, from what I see.. CT’s case is like a “drama swasta” kind of thing. But what I dislike most is.. she’s falling in love with someone’s husband. And I believe, CT is the cause of the breakup between DK and his ex-wife.. Okay, I guess I MUST stop it right here.CT’s fans out there.. Don’t get too emotional.. I’m just giving me opinion..

  • Kev..

    this is merely my opinion, and not my intention to disparage anyone.. Well, I will try to make this short. Anyway it seems that many young women nowadays (Gals, take note, it’s “many”, not “all”) goes for financial security when it comes to marriage. Maybe to some of them, they just don’t like to go through any troubles by risking themselves in a conjugality with young guys who are still financially unstable.

    In CT’s case, do you really think it’s really love that coalesces them together? Well, maybe, if any, that love plays its role but I doubt that is the main reason for tying the knot. I guess it’s mostly because of his wealth. Do you think CT would go for someone who earns lesser than what she makes? I don’t think so.

    By the way, from what I see.. CT’s case is like a “drama swasta” kind of thing. But what I dislike most is.. she’s falling in love with someone’s husband. And I believe, CT is the cause of the breakup between DK and his ex-wife.. Okay, I guess I MUST stop it right here.

    CT’s fans out there.. Don’t get too emotional.. I’m just giving me opinion..

  • xis, agree with you about CT but its such a sad message that she sends out to younger women…..here you have such a successful public figure and yet she needs to “ruin” someone’s family….True young men def don’t have the financial stability of a 40+ yr old but isn’t that part of the journey 2 people take together….building a life on their own?!?! Making it through thick and thin and raising a family…NOT marrying into ONE!Aight….i betta stop here.

  • xis, agree with you about CT but its such a sad message that she sends out to younger women…..here you have such a successful public figure and yet she needs to “ruin” someone’s family….

    True young men def don’t have the financial stability of a 40+ yr old but isn’t that part of the journey 2 people take together….building a life on their own?!?! Making it through thick and thin and raising a family…NOT marrying into ONE!

    Aight….i betta stop here.

  • Yupp..totally agree..with EVERYTHING…Im a fan of hers but then, when I heard bout the news, I was like.. speechless.. Nvm. It’s her choice. All we can do is sit down and watch. :)

  • Yupp..totally agree..with EVERYTHING…

    Im a fan of hers but then, when I heard bout the news, I was like.. speechless..

    Nvm. It’s her choice. All we can do is sit down and watch. :)

  • Okay.. just wanted to add one or two more things…Ruining someone’s marriage is one thing, marrying that someone’s ex-husband is another thing. Now she’s going to walk down the aisle, and have it telecast live to the whole nation. My GOD! Is her wedding going to be one of the most important things in Malaysia history? And they seem to be so ignorant of others’ feeling esp. his ex-wife and family. (oh well,had he ever cared about his wife, he would not have divorced her just because of CT!). Well.. just good luck to CT.. I just hope that it would not be downpour during her wedding day in KL.. Otherwise, it’s going to be such a wet wedding… right?Kev, I agreed with you. Plus, I believe, if someone is willing to go through thick and thin together with his/her partner, they will make better couple/spouse.

  • Okay.. just wanted to add one or two more things…

    Ruining someone’s marriage is one thing, marrying that someone’s ex-husband is another thing. Now she’s going to walk down the aisle, and have it telecast live to the whole nation. My GOD! Is her wedding going to be one of the most important things in Malaysia history? And they seem to be so ignorant of others’ feeling esp. his ex-wife and family. (oh well,had he ever cared about his wife, he would not have divorced her just because of CT!).

    Well.. just good luck to CT.. I just hope that it would not be downpour during her wedding day in KL.. Otherwise, it’s going to be such a wet wedding… right?

    Kev, I agreed with you. Plus, I believe, if someone is willing to go through thick and thin together with his/her partner, they will make better couple/spouse.

  • haha….. so funny lar u all.I think nobody is perfect even CT.It’s better if we just could accept on what she is doing rather than give negative comments & condemn her fairytale.May be she has hidden agenda to share with her fans.I think so.

  • haha….. so funny lar u all.I think nobody is perfect even CT.It’s better if we just could accept on what she is doing rather than give negative comments & condemn her fairytale.May be she has hidden agenda to share with her fans.I think so.

  • Kev,It may sound corny, but love is blind…hahaha! Quoting Shakespeare ‘For Love Is Blind & Lovers Cannot See’ Get it? :P

  • Kev,

    It may sound corny, but love is blind…hahaha! Quoting Shakespeare ‘For Love Is Blind & Lovers Cannot
    See’ Get it? :P

  • hey – becareful when you write about siti. remember what she is capable of?

    the whole telecast thing is funny, especially with Datuk K to be paraded around. if he is a young man than it is okay…

    i wonder what his children will think when their father is paraded around.

  • hey – becareful when you write about siti. remember what she is capable of? the whole telecast thing is funny, especially with Datuk K to be paraded around. if he is a young man than it is okay…i wonder what his children will think when their father is paraded around.

  • Well I just hope that the main roads would not be closed during the parade…it would create massive congestion…I mean come on..closing the road to watch DK with CT, what more watching them live in the TV…it’s just so euww-euww for me…

  • Well I just hope that the main roads would not be closed during the parade…it would create massive congestion…I mean come on..closing the road to watch DK with CT, what more watching them live in the TV…it’s just so euww-euww for me…

  • yeah its quite unbelievable how their announcement made it to the covers of pretty much all the newspapers…on the flip side myabe its good that Malaysia has nuttin better to talk/worry about….aren’t we lucky?!?! ;)

  • yeah its quite unbelievable how their announcement made it to the covers of pretty much all the newspapers…on the flip side myabe its good that Malaysia has nuttin better to talk/worry about….aren’t we lucky?!?! ;)

  • Hiya!! Hmm.. just wanted to conclude my comment on this matter.. I believe everyone has their own rights to choose their life partner. But that doesn’t mean you have the rights to ruin someone else’s marriage just for the sake of your own happiness. You know you’re dealing with someone’s husband, someone’s father, so make sure you know where you stand.I still remember the late Princess Diana used to say this.. “two is a company, 3 is a crowd” when referring to Camilla’s intrusion in her marriage. And that’s what CT is in my eyes..Anyway, however we don’t like CT’s choice and doings, I believe this is what she’s gonna say to us.. “Ku yakin di sana menantiMahligai kencana abadiDisaluti sutera asliSelimut cinta aroma harum kasturi.” Oh well.. that’s taken from her song “Nian Di Hati”Kev.. guess you gotta find a new issue to discuss now. :-)

  • Hiya!! Hmm.. just wanted to conclude my comment on this matter.. I believe everyone has their own rights to choose their life partner. But that doesn’t mean you have the rights to ruin someone else’s marriage just for the sake of your own happiness. You know you’re dealing with someone’s husband, someone’s father, so make sure you know where you stand.

    I still remember the late Princess Diana used to say this.. “two is a company, 3 is a crowd” when referring to Camilla’s intrusion in her marriage. And that’s what CT is in my eyes..

    Anyway, however we don’t like CT’s choice and doings, I believe this is what she’s gonna say to us..
    “Ku yakin di sana menanti
    Mahligai kencana abadi
    Disaluti sutera asli
    Selimut cinta aroma harum kasturi.”
    Oh well.. that’s taken from her song “Nian Di Hati”

    Kev.. guess you gotta find a new issue to discuss now. :-)

  • Kev,Dengar cite u nak buat album.So may be u can practice singing this song to CT.Nyanyi ikut rentak lagu yang dipopularkan oleh Sudirman – 31 Ogos. Nyayiansecara berkoir adalah digalakanTajuk:21 OgosTanggal dua puluh satuBulan lapan dua ribu enamBerkuda! Di kota!Nak dara dan dudaIa pasti menjadi sejarahTanggal dua puluh satuBulan lapan dua ribu enamHari yang muliaHari bahagiaSambut dengan Khalid Md JiwaMari kita seluruh warga negaraRamai-ramai menyambut hari berkudaBerkuda!Dua satu bulan lapan dua ribu enamSiaran langsung oleh TV3

  • Kev,

    Dengar cite u nak buat album.So may be u can practice singing this song to CT.
    Nyanyi ikut rentak lagu yang dipopularkan oleh Sudirman – 31 Ogos. Nyayian
    secara berkoir adalah digalakan

    Tajuk:21 Ogos

    Tanggal dua puluh satu
    Bulan lapan dua ribu enam
    Berkuda! Di kota!
    Nak dara dan duda
    Ia pasti menjadi sejarah

    Tanggal dua puluh satu
    Bulan lapan dua ribu enam
    Hari yang mulia
    Hari bahagia
    Sambut dengan Khalid Md Jiwa

    Mari kita seluruh warga negara
    Ramai-ramai menyambut hari berkuda
    Berkuda!
    Dua satu bulan lapan dua ribu enam
    Siaran langsung oleh TV3

  • Shahril Aley,I can’t help, but laugh and sing that song… CT must consider this song for her next album.. :-) opss.. no more comment from me on this…

  • Shahril Aley,

    I can’t help, but laugh and sing that song… CT must consider this song for her next album.. :-) opss.. no more comment from me on this…

  • sorry kev, but i have no other means to ask this question to someone in here…xis, are you a sarawakian?

  • sorry kev, but i have no other means to ask this question to someone in here…xis, are you a sarawakian?

  • Shahrizan,nope.. I’m not Sarawakian… What made you ask me that question? Do I look like one?? That’s something new to me.. all this while, people mistakenly thought I was either chinese or mixed.. and now.. sarawakian..? hmm…

  • Shahrizan,

    nope.. I’m not Sarawakian… What made you ask me that question? Do I look like one?? That’s something new to me.. all this while, people mistakenly thought I was either chinese or mixed.. and now.. sarawakian..? hmm…

  • shahril aley,where did u hear that I’m making an album? hahahahaha….i def can’t sing so thats a no-go for me :)

  • shahril aley,

    where did u hear that I’m making an album? hahahahaha….i def can’t sing so thats a no-go for me :)

  • i think the main reason was love.Money?Erm…not really cos she herself earns a lot of money…and he will be half broke once his ex-wife managed to get 4 millions out of his pocket.And sadly…certain people will do anything for love…even if it means stealing someone’s hubby!And i think the most disgusting thing is the image that she used to potray…soooo fake la dude.She should leave him once she knew he is married…n have intentions on her…Not easy but can be done…Being a single woman…i know how hard it is to find a good man…They either married…or not so straight…or somewhere in Serenti as well as in Sg Buloh Jail…but then again these good men really exist…I have found one…lost him a will find one again…So to CT…congrats on ur coming wedding..and remember…marriage is all about gambling….

  • i think the main reason was love.Money?Erm…not really cos she herself earns a lot of money…and he will be half broke once his ex-wife managed to get 4 millions out of his pocket.

    And sadly…certain people will do anything for love…even if it means stealing someone’s hubby!And i think the most disgusting thing is the image that she used to potray…soooo fake la dude.She should leave him once she knew he is married…n have intentions on her…Not easy but can be done…

    Being a single woman…i know how hard it is to find a good man…They either married…or not so straight…or somewhere in Serenti as well as in Sg Buloh Jail…but then again these good men really exist…I have found one…lost him a will find one again…

    So to CT…congrats on ur coming wedding..and remember…marriage is all about gambling….

  • Kevin,Actually i’ve read from ur testi in friendster.If not mistaken lar.haha…..Dont u hv any interest become a singer since u being fitness trainer in AF??i mean influence…..

  • Kevin,

    Actually i’ve read from ur testi in friendster.If not mistaken lar.haha…..Dont u hv any interest become a singer since u being fitness trainer in AF??i mean influence…..

  • shahril aley,not a matter of interest…its a matter of talent..or in this case…lack thereof ;)I wouldn’t mind trying new things but i wouldn’t simply belasah

  • shahril aley,

    not a matter of interest…its a matter of talent..or in this case…lack thereof ;)

    I wouldn’t mind trying new things but i wouldn’t simply belasah

  • Kev…So wat’s ur plan after AF get over this weekend?How u get managed ur time between ur jobs as proton’s staff, model, trainer etc?

  • Kev…

    So wat’s ur plan after AF get over this weekend?How u get managed ur time between ur jobs as proton’s staff, model, trainer etc?

  • how I manage my time?….its crazy sometimes….the variety of work I do keeps it very interesting…proton is something i am tied to (literally)..once I finish my contract with them…i’ll focus on my other career…damn i’ll be 30 by than…

  • how I manage my time?….its crazy sometimes….the variety of work I do keeps it very interesting…

    proton is something i am tied to (literally)..once I finish my contract with them…i’ll focus on my other career…damn i’ll be 30 by than…

  • one more comment on love or money….i think falling in love or not is your own choice…..i believe you actually have to let yourself fall in love….If I met a girl who was married (for whatever reason)…I would restrain myself from developing feelings for that person! but thats just me…i don’t judge people who do other otherwise :)people can do as they wish ;)

  • one more comment on love or money….
    i think falling in love or not is your own choice…..i believe you actually have to let yourself fall in love….

    If I met a girl who was married (for whatever reason)…I would restrain myself from developing feelings for that person! but thats just me…i don’t judge people who do other otherwise :)

    people can do as they wish ;)

  • What an interesting ‘discussion’. But then again, although I’m not a fan of CT.. It’s her choice, if it’s the wrong one, she’ll learn from it sooner or later.. That’s LIFE… :) And LOVE comes when u LEAST expects IT ;)

  • What an interesting ‘discussion’. But then again, although I’m not a fan of CT.. It’s her choice, if it’s the wrong one, she’ll learn from it sooner or later.. That’s LIFE… :) And LOVE comes when u LEAST expects IT ;)

  • Kev..okay.. this has nothing gotta do with your current topic posted here. Last night, it’s so happened I watched Diari Akademi.. err.. did I hear it right.. you said you’re gonna cook some steaks for those students today?? Really?? Are you a good cook? Just wonder.. hope you won’t turn that kitchen into a smokey room again.. haha.. just teasing ya! p/s: rib eyes for me, okay.. medium is good.. :-)

  • Kev..

    okay.. this has nothing gotta do with your current topic posted here. Last night, it’s so happened I watched Diari Akademi.. err.. did I hear it right.. you said you’re gonna cook some steaks for those students today?? Really?? Are you a good cook? Just wonder.. hope you won’t turn that kitchen into a smokey room again.. haha.. just teasing ya!

    p/s: rib eyes for me, okay.. medium is good.. :-)

  • The truth abt CTHi Kev,Well, how many men does CT know? Aprt from his borhter ayie, there’s only 2 other men in her life. Fazley and Datuk K.For all her career life she’s been well guarded by her brother and sis in law, htere’s no other men dare to go near her (even shaking hands are forbidden). And not owning handphone doesnt help either. At this rate, even if keling botol send her sms, she will fall for him.Why not Fazley? Well, mommy dearest dont want her availble bachelor to marry her. Therefore, only left with one. Plus she’s very lack (expereince-wise) in the love department. Therefore she cant tell wether his love for her is for real..She’s been living in the ‘sangkar burung emas’ for long…. and there’s no way out… pity her.Well, anyway, like people said, Datuk K is luckier than Datuk E. He got to ‘use’ brand new city while datuk e settled for second hand Tiara. :p

  • The truth abt CT

    Hi Kev,

    Well, how many men does CT know? Aprt from his borhter ayie, there’s only 2 other men in her life. Fazley and Datuk K.

    For all her career life she’s been well guarded by her brother and sis in law, htere’s no other men dare to go near her (even shaking hands are forbidden). And not owning handphone doesnt help either.

    At this rate, even if keling botol send her sms, she will fall for him.

    Why not Fazley? Well, mommy dearest dont want her availble bachelor to marry her.

    Therefore, only left with one. Plus she’s very lack (expereince-wise) in the love department. Therefore she cant tell wether his love for her is for real..

    She’s been living in the ‘sangkar burung emas’ for long…. and there’s no way out… pity her.

    Well, anyway, like people said, Datuk K is luckier than Datuk E. He got to ‘use’ brand new city while datuk e settled for second hand Tiara. :p

  • famil, i agree with u… yes, she’s been living in a sangkar burung emas. eventhough i hate it (eeee tak suka taw…) when she is marrying DK but deep in my heart happy that she will finally “lepas” from the sangkar.one more thing i wanna add here.. i think she is not marrying DK for money coz’ rasanye lah CT has more $$$ than DK. well i’m not her peminat fanatik (album pun tak pernah beli ok… mahal, hahaha) but i just wanna wish her good luck. harap perkahwinan “ratu pop” malaysia ni berkekalan.salam utk semua… muah

  • famil,
    i agree with u… yes, she’s been living in a sangkar burung emas. eventhough i hate it (eeee tak suka taw…) when she is marrying DK but deep in my heart happy that she will finally “lepas” from the sangkar.

    one more thing i wanna add here.. i think she is not marrying DK for money coz’ rasanye lah CT has more $$$ than DK.

    well i’m not her peminat fanatik (album pun tak pernah beli ok… mahal, hahaha) but i just wanna wish her good luck.

    harap perkahwinan “ratu pop” malaysia ni berkekalan.

    salam utk semua… muah

  • my opinion…..i think it’s not fair that people are accusing siti for marrying datuk K because of his money.. c’mon people… you think she just started singing? i would say that she’s very much a millionaire herself. come to think of it, sapa yang “layak” kawin siti? ok, let’s create an imaginary boyfriend for siti in the perfect world. he might be 30 years old, handsome, oversea educated, speaks french and arab, an architect, working in a famous achitect firm, making RM 8,000 a month (baru jer kerja 5 tahun, since architect course is 8 years), drives a honda accord and totally a mommy’s boy.. sunds ermm…. comfortable? OK! do you think that he is sesuai dengan siti? he does sounds yummy to me, FOR ME. kalau FOR siti? boleh ke? this imaginary boyfriend also sounds ambitious. wouldn’t he be intimidated by siti’s fame and wealth?

  • my opinion…..

    i think it’s not fair that people are accusing siti for marrying datuk K because of his money.. c’mon people… you think she just started singing? i would say that she’s very much a millionaire herself. come to think of it, sapa yang “layak” kawin siti? ok, let’s create an imaginary boyfriend for siti in the perfect world. he might be 30 years old, handsome, oversea educated, speaks french and arab, an architect, working in a famous achitect firm, making RM 8,000 a month (baru jer kerja 5 tahun, since architect course is 8 years), drives a honda accord and totally a mommy’s boy.. sunds ermm…. comfortable? OK! do you think that he is sesuai dengan siti? he does sounds yummy to me, FOR ME. kalau FOR siti? boleh ke? this imaginary boyfriend also sounds ambitious. wouldn’t he be intimidated by siti’s fame and wealth?

  • Famil,Are you sure of what you said -“htere’s no other men dare to go near her (even shaking hands are forbidden)”? I believe that sounds so aggrandizing… :-)

  • Famil,

    Are you sure of what you said -“htere’s no other men dare to go near her (even shaking hands are forbidden)”? I believe that sounds so aggrandizing… :-)

  • Jena..if money is not a matter to that CT.. then, why not marrying that imaginary bf..Do you think a rich person would marry a poor one? This is the reality.. the truth.. rich people always want to be richer, not poorer..Yuckk… case closed! Good luck to CT and DK…

  • Jena..

    if money is not a matter to that CT.. then, why not marrying that imaginary bf..

    Do you think a rich person would marry a poor one? This is the reality.. the truth.. rich people always want to be richer, not poorer..

    Yuckk… case closed! Good luck to CT and DK…

  • xis (cyst or sis?.. kiddin),sounds a little absurd, but seriously, would any measly paid, no connection, young bachelors like us dare to approach her? Segan lah.Anyway, could you already salam her nowadays?

  • xis (cyst or sis?.. kiddin),

    sounds a little absurd, but seriously, would any measly paid, no connection, young bachelors like us dare to approach her? Segan lah.

    Anyway, could you already salam her nowadays?

  • Familxis, pronounce it as “exist”. Hence, x-xis mean “not exist”. And frankly speaking, I’ve got nothing to do with local band Exist..Kev da’ tuan rumah.. sorry for using your blog to answer my personal thing.. for this reason, later I belanja, okay! :-)

  • Famil

    xis, pronounce it as “exist”. Hence, x-xis mean “not exist”. And frankly speaking, I’ve got nothing to do with local band Exist..

    Kev da’ tuan rumah.. sorry for using your blog to answer my personal thing.. for this reason, later I belanja, okay! :-)

  • no worries xis….appreciate everybody’s comments….thats what theis is all about…makes my job more fun in knowing that people actually take the time to read and comment on it….so keep it up!Minum? No problem! :)

  • no worries xis….appreciate everybody’s comments….thats what theis is all about…makes my job more fun in knowing that people actually take the time to read and comment on it….so keep it up!

    Minum? No problem! :)

  • Kev,How’s ur cooking session with AF students?That was ur idea or AF?must be good cooked by u?I think so……But what happened on that day when u cooked spaghetti…

  • Kev,

    How’s ur cooking session with AF students?That was ur idea or AF?must be good cooked by u?I think so……But what happened on that day when u cooked spaghetti…

  • Kev,i agree with u all guys.Met few gals that would leave a young good looking, unstable guys for ‘old’er rich man. And a couple of them admit to me that they need those man for some financial security. I dunno la what will happen in the future. Look like young guys like us have to wait till we are 40 to start a family. I hope not

  • Kev,
    i agree with u all guys.Met few gals that would leave a young good looking, unstable guys for ‘old’er rich man. And a couple of them admit to me that they need those man for some financial security. I dunno la what will happen in the future. Look like young guys like us have to wait till we are 40 to start a family. I hope not

  • Cooking session went better than last time :)…..students helped out a lot..but took a while jugak coz we got masak for the production side as well (although tak banyak but still lah)…..For CT n DK…I obviously wish them all da best and happiness. That was never in doubt here.

  • Cooking session went better than last time :)…..students helped out a lot..but took a while jugak coz we got masak for the production side as well (although tak banyak but still lah)…..

    For CT n DK…I obviously wish them all da best and happiness. That was never in doubt here.

  • Kev..thanks! Anyway, guess this post gathered more responses than the rest. That’s normally what you will get when discussing about CT and Mawi. Minum?? Okay.. you let me know when you’re free and where to meet for drinks.. :-)

  • Kev..

    thanks! Anyway, guess this post gathered more responses than the rest. That’s normally what you will get when discussing about CT and Mawi.

    Minum?? Okay.. you let me know when you’re free and where to meet for drinks.. :-)

  • xis,it’s because u’ve mentioned about a certain merdeka palace. i dunno whether there’s a merdeka palace in kl but there is one in kuching. anyways, it’s ok. glad u’ve explained.why u don’t allow readers to post comments on your blog page, bro?

  • xis,
    it’s because u’ve mentioned about a certain merdeka palace. i dunno whether there’s a merdeka palace in kl but there is one in kuching. anyways, it’s ok. glad u’ve explained.
    why u don’t allow readers to post comments on your blog page, bro?

  • Shahrizan Halil..gosh.. I don’t have any blanket to hide my blushing face… LOL!!Yes.. I did mention Merdeka Palace. And yes it’s only in Kuching. I used to go Kuching a lot for the past 2 years. Now, no longer and maybe, will never be..Okay.. let me just activate that comment thing..

  • Shahrizan Halil..

    gosh.. I don’t have any blanket to hide my blushing face… LOL!!

    Yes.. I did mention Merdeka Palace. And yes it’s only in Kuching. I used to go Kuching a lot for the past 2 years. Now, no longer and maybe, will never be..

    Okay.. let me just activate that comment thing..

  • ala, biar je la ct tu nak kawin ngan sape pun…dia kan jutawan?takkan nak kawin ngan mamat biasa yg baru nak kaya ,then tak matured pulak kan??kevin, u bila lak nak kawin?jawab,jawab…

  • ala, biar je la ct tu nak kawin ngan sape pun…dia kan jutawan?takkan nak kawin ngan mamat biasa yg baru nak kaya ,then tak matured pulak kan??kevin, u bila lak nak kawin?jawab,jawab…

  • bila i nak kahwin? dunno la…..bila masa and calon dah sesuai…then bole….tapi taklah sampai i dah 40am….dalam lingkungan 30.

  • bila i nak kahwin? dunno la…..bila masa and calon dah sesuai…then bole….tapi taklah sampai i dah 40am….dalam lingkungan 30.

  • Kev,u said “bila masa and calon dah sesuai…then bole”.weird dude….is it true or u just pretending to be single..i saw ur pics with someone who look special beside u….hahaha….jawab jgn tak jawab man……just teasing…..

  • Kev,
    u said “bila masa and calon dah sesuai…then bole”.weird dude….is it true or u just pretending to be single..i saw ur pics with someone who look special beside u….hahaha….jawab jgn tak jawab man……just teasing…..

  • Kev,be careful when answering.. of all you know, there’s a reporter in here.. and of all we know.. tomorrow your news will be in the local papers… :-) Remember you’re now a celebrity… :-)

  • Kev,

    be careful when answering.. of all you know, there’s a reporter in here.. and of all we know.. tomorrow your news will be in the local papers… :-) Remember you’re now a celebrity… :-)

  • Xis, i’m not a reporter but accounts executive in investment co ;) actually his news always come out in n/papers, magazine etc and its nothing to do with me.just a friend who want to talk about him…..

  • Xis,

    i’m not a reporter but accounts executive in investment co ;) actually his news always come out in n/papers, magazine etc and its nothing to do with me.just a friend who want to talk about him…..

  • xis, i think that the reason why the comments are not visible in your blog’s main page is because u did not click “publish” in each of the comments.Kev, i hope you’ve found that HAI magazine that I was talking about.

  • xis, i think that the reason why the comments are not visible in your blog’s main page is because u did not click “publish” in each of the comments.

    Kev, i hope you’ve found that HAI magazine that I was talking about.

  • Syaf,thanks!! yup that’s the part I missed. Forgot to click on publish. Anyway.. just did.. thanks bro..Kev,last night on Diari Akademi, couldn’t believe it was you singing.. goshh.. like some judges said.. “pitching ke laut.. diction tak jelas.. penghayatan takde langsung.. tak menggunakan ruang sepenuhnya.. penguasaan pentas kurang.. overall.. okay laa.. lepas ni belajar lagi dari cikgu cikgu kat Akademi tu..” hahaha!! ;)

  • Syaf,

    thanks!! yup that’s the part I missed. Forgot to click on publish. Anyway.. just did.. thanks bro..

    Kev,

    last night on Diari Akademi, couldn’t believe it was you singing.. goshh.. like some judges said.. “pitching ke laut.. diction tak jelas.. penghayatan takde langsung.. tak menggunakan ruang sepenuhnya.. penguasaan pentas kurang.. overall.. okay laa.. lepas ni belajar lagi dari cikgu cikgu kat Akademi tu..” hahaha!! ;)

  • hahahahahhaha….yeah received lots of feedback from friends, family & fans…..quite funny…best sms was from my sister:”youp, you have shamed our family…hahahaha”was good fun :)

  • hahahahahhaha….yeah received lots of feedback from friends, family & fans…..quite funny…best sms was from my sister:

    “youp, you have shamed our family…hahahaha”

    was good fun :)

  • kev,actually part mane yg u nyanyi?i just watched the 2nd part je at 11.30pm.i kire terlepas the hilarious scenes la….

  • kev,

    actually part mane yg u nyanyi?i just watched the 2nd part je at 11.30pm.i kire terlepas the hilarious scenes la….

  • Kev,I was finishing my reports last night when I heard someone sang so terribly. Thought it was Faizal but to my surprise, it was YOU! To be frank, I laughed when I heard you sing. Oh well, that’s a good try though. I bet they will show that clip during the final show. Anyway don’t worry.. you have not heard me sing yet.. I guess you would choke to death if you hear me sing.. LOL!!Shahril,That was during the cooking session.. Kev let those gals cook and he started jamming with Lotter and Jamal..

  • Kev,

    I was finishing my reports last night when I heard someone sang so terribly. Thought it was Faizal but to my surprise, it was YOU! To be frank, I laughed when I heard you sing. Oh well, that’s a good try though. I bet they will show that clip during the final show. Anyway don’t worry.. you have not heard me sing yet.. I guess you would choke to death if you hear me sing.. LOL!!

    Shahril,

    That was during the cooking session.. Kev let those gals cook and he started jamming with Lotter and Jamal..

  • Good try at singing! LOL. It was ermmm…well funny…I thought who was shouting but then it turned out to be you. Like Aznil said “Kekalkan lah sebagai Penasihat Kecergasan dan Kesihatan” Lmao. No offence Kev. :)

  • Good try at singing! LOL. It was ermmm…well funny…I thought who was shouting but then it turned out to be you.

    Like Aznil said “Kekalkan lah sebagai Penasihat Kecergasan dan Kesihatan” Lmao. No offence Kev. :)

  • I guess nowadays not only the gals but also guys are very materialistic in everything in terms of work, life, marriage and even love. But i pity her in that sense that it doesn’t do her good for her reputation and persona.. From my polling that i placed in my blog…obviuously a lot of people out there think negatively with her decision to marry one called Datuk…with money?

  • I guess nowadays not only the gals but also guys are very materialistic in everything in terms of work, life, marriage and even love.

    But i pity her in that sense that it doesn’t do her good for her reputation and persona..

    From my polling that i placed in my blog…obviuously a lot of people out there think negatively with her decision to marry one called Datuk…with money?

  • misya,some guys seems to have such an attitude as well. And I must agree. I’ve known a few. But then, if gals can be so, why can’t guys? Hmm…Kev, on Friday nite (actually Saturday morning around 130am) I watched Diari Akademi.. just wonder if you were also in tears during that last get-together session? And I must say I agree with your advice to those students.Have a good weekend..

  • misya,

    some guys seems to have such an attitude as well. And I must agree. I’ve known a few. But then, if gals can be so, why can’t guys? Hmm…

    Kev,

    on Friday nite (actually Saturday morning around 130am) I watched Diari Akademi.. just wonder if you were also in tears during that last get-together session? And I must say I agree with your advice to those students.

    Have a good weekend..

  • to all frenz…i have change my blog name to sadisticsoulz.blogspot formally know as itsmalelife.blogspot. do visit n contribute.

  • to all frenz…i have change my blog name to sadisticsoulz.blogspot formally know as itsmalelife.blogspot. do visit n contribute.

  • this is jodoh la dude. Call me naive or what have you but I seriously do believe that this it is purely fate. Kalau nak carik yg kaya donal trump lagi kaya kot..hehehe

  • this is jodoh la dude. Call me naive or what have you but I seriously do believe that this it is purely fate. Kalau nak carik yg kaya donal trump lagi kaya kot..hehehe

  • i’m totally agree with you.. women nowadays are not briliant when it’s come about men. Hmmm, i’m not just pointing on siti but what else can I say, can I? But, ohhh, it’s hard for me to say that thing is her right, oouhhh… But, you’ve got a point there….

  • i’m totally agree with you.. women nowadays are not briliant when it’s come about men. Hmmm, i’m not just pointing on siti but what else can I say, can I? But, ohhh, it’s hard for me to say that thing is her right, oouhhh… But, you’ve got a point there….

  • is money important? hell yeah! if u get married based on love, and love only, trust me, it will all be over before u can even say mamma mia! love wont put food on the table, love wont buy the baby’s diapers, and love certainly wont buy the gucci bag that u’ve been drooling over (speaking from a woman’s point of view). im not saying that money is everything, but hey, im a realist and in today’s world, u need to be financially secured before even thinking about the big ‘M’ word, or else be prepared for eternal damnation (hypothetically speaking, of course).so in short, money is important.but in CT’s case, i totally dont get it. is she marrying the guy for money? i think not cos surely she has plenty of cash stashed in a bank (that could probably feed an entire small African country for a week or two).is she a spinster and doesnt have any other choices beside dat guy? duh, she’s only what, 27? 28? is she totally ugly and has extremely low self-esteem? nope! last time i checked, she is still a stunner. and last but not least, has she take a close look at dat guy? i dont want to sound superficial and mean, but u can tell that he is not that good looking from miles away. ok, maybe thats an overstatement, but still. and what’s with the moustache? all i can think of when i see him is how rice might get stuck to his moustache when he’s eating (lol, i know, even the thought of it is totally gross!) 3 words man, lose the ‘stache! doesnt CT realise that she can do better than this? *sigh*but despite my opinions (or some might say criticisms), im going to give her the benefit of the doubt and wish her the best of luck and hope she’s happy with her decision(i do, i really do.even though im not much of her fan). after all, man proposes, god disposes.

  • is money important? hell yeah! if u get married based on love, and love only, trust me, it will all be over before u can even say mamma mia! love wont put food on the table, love wont buy the baby’s diapers, and love certainly wont buy the gucci bag that u’ve been drooling over (speaking from a woman’s point of view). im not saying that money is everything, but hey, im a realist and in today’s world, u need to be financially secured before even thinking about the big ‘M’ word, or else be prepared for eternal damnation (hypothetically speaking, of course).so in short, money is important.

    but in CT’s case, i totally dont get it. is she marrying the guy for money? i think not cos surely she has plenty of cash stashed in a bank (that could probably feed an entire small African country for a week or two).is she a spinster and doesnt have any other choices beside dat guy? duh, she’s only what, 27? 28? is she totally ugly and has extremely low self-esteem? nope! last time i checked, she is still a stunner. and last but not least, has she take a close look at dat guy? i dont want to sound superficial and mean, but u can tell that he is not that good looking from miles away. ok, maybe thats an overstatement, but still. and what’s with the moustache? all i can think of when i see him is how rice might get stuck to his moustache when he’s eating (lol, i know, even the thought of it is totally gross!) 3 words man, lose the ‘stache! doesnt CT realise that she can do better than this? *sigh*

    but despite my opinions (or some might say criticisms), im going to give her the benefit of the doubt and wish her the best of luck and hope she’s happy with her decision(i do, i really do.even though im not much of her fan). after all, man proposes, god disposes.

  • my God Kev, so many comments :)anyhow, i just came across ur blog, can’t help but leave a comment. btw, gals today still believe in true love but are much much wiser(yup, i think so). we go for men with personality, brain, charm..the whole package. yawn.. btw do u know anyone with such description? haha..

  • my God Kev, so many comments :)

    anyhow, i just came across ur blog, can’t help but leave a comment. btw, gals today still believe in true love but are much much wiser(yup, i think so). we go for men with personality, brain, charm..the whole package. yawn..

    btw do u know anyone with such description? haha..

  • ur comment is to harsh.i feel sad she pick Dato K but in this case, she’s the one who’ll get married.She knew the risk marrying a father with 4 kids..she knew all the circumstances.Let us pray for her happiness.CT is rich..he doeasn’t love Dato for his money but the quality that he have.Tx

  • ur comment is to harsh.i feel sad she pick Dato K but in this case, she’s the one who’ll get married.She knew the risk marrying a father with 4 kids..she knew all the circumstances.Let us pray for her happiness.CT is rich..he doeasn’t love Dato for his money but the quality that he have.Tx

  • thanks for all da comments people :)greatly appreciated.gonna post another topic soon. been crazy busy with post-AF stuff.

  • thanks for all da comments people :)
    greatly appreciated.
    gonna post another topic soon. been crazy busy with post-AF stuff.

  • Kevin, you seem so level-headed and such a romantic. Congrats to you and your special someone. Wish you all the best.As for CT, we all assume she knows what she’s getting herself into…but does she really? Looking from the outside and facing the realities of life will be something that she alone has to go through…no matter how rich or popular – to be wife, mother, career woman, idol, daughter, sister – so many roles and ideals to fulfill.Being a role model to the millions of young women in Malaysia, to me its just a shame for her to choose this route….

  • Kevin, you seem so level-headed and such a romantic. Congrats to you and your special someone. Wish you all the best.

    As for CT, we all assume she knows what she’s getting herself into…but does she really? Looking from the outside and facing the realities of life will be something that she alone has to go through…no matter how rich or popular – to be wife, mother, career woman, idol, daughter, sister – so many roles and ideals to fulfill.

    Being a role model to the millions of young women in Malaysia, to me its just a shame for her to choose this route….

  • it seems to me most of you are ok with beautiful people like CT to marry to a young, good looking and financially unstable guy yet it is wrong to marry a financially secured, not much of a looker older guy. stop your double standard la all of you. looks or money, they’re both just commodities in this sick and twisted game of courtship. at least CT isn’t a Britney looking for a Federline.

  • it seems to me most of you are ok with beautiful people like CT to marry to a young, good looking and financially unstable guy yet it is wrong to marry a financially secured, not much of a looker older guy. stop your double standard la all of you. looks or money, they’re both just commodities in this sick and twisted game of courtship. at least CT isn’t a Britney looking for a Federline.

  • Hi kev…Was it you at starbucks @mk today? Nice hair :)Anyway, CT’s wedding topic is hawt! Our darling pop princess.. I don’t think she marry him for his wealth ok coz I think she is successful herself. If she can donates half a mil to charity I’m sure tat’s not the case. She just pick the wrong man but who we are to judge? But stealing another one happiness isn’t rite for me either and polygamy suxx. But don’t you agree nowadays, guys are too picky on gals too. I mean they wanna know how educated she is, what car is she driving, who does she stays wif and sometimes how much are their earnings. Then only the try to take a step further. Gosh.. dunno la. Is there really a true love & sincerity instill in everyone?

  • Hi kev…

    Was it you at starbucks @mk today? Nice hair :)

    Anyway, CT’s wedding topic is hawt! Our darling pop princess.. I don’t think she marry him for his wealth ok coz I think she is successful herself. If she can donates half a mil to charity I’m sure tat’s not the case. She just pick the wrong man but who we are to judge? But stealing another one happiness isn’t rite for me either and polygamy suxx.

    But don’t you agree nowadays, guys are too picky on gals too. I mean they wanna know how educated she is, what car is she driving, who does she stays wif and sometimes how much are their earnings. Then only the try to take a step further. Gosh.. dunno la. Is there really a true love & sincerity instill in everyone?

  • i’ve had enough of all the news and coverage of CT Nurhaliza and Dato’ K! People are getting married most of the time! so be it!I know that most of the newspaper are doing the coverage because of the money! but damnit! why most of the malaysian are just letting this getting out of the hand?and worst!! the damn TV3 are doing a talk show merely to discuss the wedding!!????? F**K O**!!i know how shallow TV3 are…they used to highlight most of other people misery! in the name of charity and good deeds but they shown us those people in their weakest emotions, let the world see them when they are cying their heart out not to gain sympathy but to express their sadness…and the bloody TV3 zoomed so closely to their face!! they are so many people are dying all over the world, even the moron could see that! people died even in our own country! but all i can see, is the news on CT!!!!!!i am sadden by the mind of most of the malays….how they allowed themselves to be simple minded….

  • i’ve had enough of all the news and coverage of CT Nurhaliza and Dato’ K! People are getting married most of the time! so be it!I know that most of the newspaper are doing the coverage because of the money! but damnit! why most of the malaysian are just letting this getting out of the hand?and worst!! the damn TV3 are doing a talk show merely to discuss the wedding!!????? F**K O**!!i know how shallow TV3 are…they used to highlight most of other people misery! in the name of charity and good deeds but they shown us those people in their weakest emotions, let the world see them when they are cying their heart out not to gain sympathy but to express their sadness…and the bloody TV3 zoomed so closely to their face!! they are so many people are dying all over the world, even the moron could see that! people died even in our own country! but all i can see, is the news on CT!!!!!!i am sadden by the mind of most of the malays….how they allowed themselves to be simple minded….

  • i’ve had enough of all the news and coverage of CT Nurhaliza and Dato’ K!
    People are getting married most of the time! so be it!

    I know that most of the newspaper are doing the coverage because of the money! but damnit! why most of the malaysian are just letting this getting out of the hand?

    and worst!! the damn TV3 are doing a talk show merely to discuss the wedding!!????? F**K O**!!

    i know how shallow TV3 are…they used to highlight most of other people misery! in the name of charity and good deeds but they shown us those people in their weakest emotions, let the world see them when they are cying their heart out not to gain sympathy but to express their sadness…and the bloody TV3 zoomed so closely to their face!!

    they are so many people are dying all over the world, even the moron could see that! people died even in our own country! but all i can see, is the news on CT!!!!!!

    i am sadden by the mind of most of the malays….how they allowed themselves to be simple minded….

  • i’ve had enough of all the news and coverage of CT Nurhaliza and Dato’ K!
    People are getting married most of the time! so be it!

    I know that most of the newspaper are doing the coverage because of the money! but damnit! why most of the malaysian are just letting this getting out of the hand?

    and worst!! the damn TV3 are doing a talk show merely to discuss the wedding!!????? F**K O**!!

    i know how shallow TV3 are…they used to highlight most of other people misery! in the name of charity and good deeds but they shown us those people in their weakest emotions, let the world see them when they are cying their heart out not to gain sympathy but to express their sadness…and the bloody TV3 zoomed so closely to their face!!

    they are so many people are dying all over the world, even the moron could see that! people died even in our own country! but all i can see, is the news on CT!!!!!!

    i am sadden by the mind of most of the malays….how they allowed themselves to be simple minded….

  • juicylicious:me @ starbucks? hahahaha must be! Gotta have my coffee….;)nice blog by the way….will add ya up!

  • juicylicious:

    me @ starbucks? hahahaha must be! Gotta have my coffee….;)

    nice blog by the way….will add ya up!

  • What really ticked me off is the fact that she brags about her wedding.. Ello… orang lain kahwin jugek lah!!! Then with all the money spent and wasted. Dont u think they should just keep it moderate and simple, and donate their abundant wealth to those more in need.. Boleh Blah!!! Not really praying that the marriage will last, but somehow we’ve witnessed an example of a celebrity couple who ended up getting divorce sebab terlalu menunjuk masa kahwin. Tulah, Tuhan tak berkenan. Then there’s this email going around about Dato’ K’s budak hingusan (his sons) berkepit dengan awek separuh bogel, tak cukup kain lepak kat bar. If the photos are genuine, hmmm…. let’s ask this question – are these the people we Malaysians should look up to? Huh???

  • What really ticked me off is the fact that she brags about her wedding.. Ello… orang lain kahwin jugek lah!!! Then with all the money spent and wasted. Dont u think they should just keep it moderate and simple, and donate their abundant wealth to those more in need.. Boleh Blah!!! Not really praying that the marriage will last, but somehow we’ve witnessed an example of a celebrity couple who ended up getting divorce sebab terlalu menunjuk masa kahwin. Tulah, Tuhan tak berkenan. Then there’s this email going around about Dato’ K’s budak hingusan (his sons) berkepit dengan awek separuh bogel, tak cukup kain lepak kat bar. If the photos are genuine, hmmm…. let’s ask this question – are these the people we Malaysians should look up to? Huh???

  • By the time u find ur love, u might be 47, with thick mustache, probably with a Datuk title, wealthy, and she’s a singer… what say u if this happens to u? :P

  • By the time u find ur love, u might be 47, with thick mustache, probably with a Datuk title, wealthy, and she’s a singer… what say u if this happens to u? :P

  • abdun and anonymous..you don’t have to be so judgmental and dengki. biarlah dia nak blanja brapa byk pun, duit dia… lagipun bukan ke dia dah asaskan dana untuk kebajikan? of course I too think that tv3 is over-exposing her wedding but then she is Siti. not just ‘people’. kalau tak suka, jangan mengata, nanti bertambah dosa tu. tak perlu doakan kebahagiaan dia kalau tak mahu tapi jangan sampai doakan penceraian pula! perbelanjaan untuk kahwin tu takkan melambung tinggi kalau dia bukan penyanyi #1 yang org mmg tahu byk duit. look at the bright side, majlis perkahwinan dia memberi rezeki pada byk pihak, kedai bunga, catering, pereka fesyen, malah duit yang khabarnya tv3 nak bagi tu pun dia tak amik semua – nanti org kata jual majlis. hari ni mungkin kita kutuk org habis2an, kita kata dia buta sebab pilih laki tua, kecik2 slalu nyanyi kat dapur, bla bla bla… jangan lupa, Tuhan berkuasa memberi dugaan yang sama pada org yg mengata tu. waktu tu hmmm nak ke jilat ludah sendiri? apa2 pun, kita doa yang baik saja, pahala tak kurang, dosa tak bertambah… siti sendiri tak tau macam mana kesudahan rumahtangganya nanti, itukan ketentuan Tuhan, dia cuma boleh berusaha menjaganya. Andaikata (minta dijauhkan) tidak berkekalan, adakah kita akan kutuk dia lebih teruk? padan muka, dulu menunjuk2… hakikatnya, semua tu ujian Tuhan. jgn lupa, kita tak perlu menghukum org lain…

  • abdun and anonymous..

    you don’t have to be so judgmental and dengki. biarlah dia nak blanja brapa byk pun, duit dia… lagipun bukan ke dia dah asaskan dana untuk kebajikan?
    of course I too think that tv3 is over-exposing her wedding but then she is Siti. not just ‘people’. kalau tak suka, jangan mengata, nanti bertambah dosa tu. tak perlu doakan kebahagiaan dia kalau tak mahu tapi jangan sampai doakan penceraian pula!
    perbelanjaan untuk kahwin tu takkan melambung tinggi kalau dia bukan penyanyi #1 yang org mmg tahu byk duit. look at the bright side, majlis perkahwinan dia memberi rezeki pada byk pihak, kedai bunga, catering, pereka fesyen, malah duit yang khabarnya tv3 nak bagi tu pun dia tak amik semua – nanti org kata jual majlis.
    hari ni mungkin kita kutuk org habis2an, kita kata dia buta sebab pilih laki tua, kecik2 slalu nyanyi kat dapur, bla bla bla… jangan lupa, Tuhan berkuasa memberi dugaan yang sama pada org yg mengata tu. waktu tu hmmm nak ke jilat ludah sendiri? apa2 pun, kita doa yang baik saja, pahala tak kurang, dosa tak bertambah…
    siti sendiri tak tau macam mana kesudahan rumahtangganya nanti, itukan ketentuan Tuhan, dia cuma boleh berusaha menjaganya. Andaikata (minta dijauhkan) tidak berkekalan, adakah kita akan kutuk dia lebih teruk? padan muka, dulu menunjuk2… hakikatnya, semua tu ujian Tuhan. jgn lupa, kita tak perlu menghukum org lain…

  • Kevin…Andai kata u bertemu jodoh dengan Datuk S, dan masa tu u syok giler kat datuk tu… org sumer kutuk, u sorg je yg tau hati budi datuk tu… adakah u akan tinggalkan cinta semata2 kerana nak dgr cakap org?I know it’s not easy to let go of ‘something’ all this while we thought belonged to us but the truth is, perasaan memiliki tu hanya dalam fikiran, takde siapa yg berani nak dekat dgn dia konon ingat dia cari yg sama kaya, etc… I said ‘Datuk’ bukan sebab nak kata u drive the car on the wrong side of the road. Datuk S (Sharifah Aini ke… Datuk Yusni Hamid ke… for instance laaa, hehe, or mana2 businesswoman yang bergelar Datuk).. kalau I tulis Datin K, tu lagi dahsyat… bini org!Anyways, all the best to you, Kev. Semoga business u berkembang pesat. Tak nak buat franchise ke? :P

  • Kevin…
    Andai kata u bertemu jodoh dengan Datuk S, dan masa tu u syok giler kat datuk tu… org sumer kutuk, u sorg je yg tau hati budi datuk tu… adakah u akan tinggalkan cinta semata2 kerana nak dgr cakap org?

    I know it’s not easy to let go of ‘something’ all this while we thought belonged to us but the truth is, perasaan memiliki tu hanya dalam fikiran, takde siapa yg berani nak dekat dgn dia konon ingat dia cari yg sama kaya, etc…

    I said ‘Datuk’ bukan sebab nak kata u drive the car on the wrong side of the road. Datuk S (Sharifah Aini ke… Datuk Yusni Hamid ke… for instance laaa, hehe, or mana2 businesswoman yang bergelar Datuk).. kalau I tulis Datin K, tu lagi dahsyat… bini org!

    Anyways, all the best to you, Kev. Semoga business u berkembang pesat. Tak nak buat franchise ke? :P

  • Again from me… hehe Jena and Goddess of Venus… i got u…My mom used to condemn my cousin who marries a widower. So did my other aunts. My sis finally marries a widower with one son after he got divorced. Just like what Siti went thru. Dah cerai cuma surat je belum keluar pastu baru nak berkawan. But then, of course mmg tabiat manusia suka buat spekulasi.. home-wrecker… gatal bala bla bla… because the society still tend to punish women, hell now I’m sounding like a feminists lol! Nah… i’m lucky to be a man. kalau anak dara kawin dgn duda, org kutuk anak dara tu bukan si duda. kalau kevin ke atau xis kawin dgn wanita kaya yg berumur for her kerana cinta sejati (bukan sebab duit), org akan kutuk pompuan tua tu… tak sedar diri dah kerepot nak kawin dgn anak ikan kuali-Asian… see what i mean, it’s hard for them, women. but then andaikatalah (of course u can say NO WAY JOSE – but then fate is fate) u ‘terkawin’ dgn Datuk Khaty aged 47, multimillionaire, pemilik franchise gym, muka a la demi moore and ur like Ashton Kutcher… and u both know each other better … I wonder how u guys are going to face it? Give it in or proceed? Macam lagu Siti.. pernahkah kau bermimpi seketika berada di tempatku?Bro Xis, jangan buat andaian dia merampas suami org, mana tau kot2 esok u kawin pastu tak kekal pastu jatuh cinta pulak dgn Ina, penyanyi nasyid… pendek kata, (i’m not defending siti or anything) just to remind us all, including myself, jgn menaruh sangka yg buruk, jgn condemn org sebab kita tak tau apa akan berlakudalam hidup kita. bak kata Karam Singh, pulang paku buah keras. Meludah ke langit, akhirnya jatuh ke muka sendiri…my mom cuba2 nak sorokkan cucu tiri tu but then I told her, sooner or later ppl will know, lebih org tau dari mula… actually, she is just worried her sister (my aunt) would bad-mouth my sis. but then again… that aunt also marries a widower with 1 son! haha.. i hope this is not a family curse or is it a lesson for us all not to bad-mouthed anak dara yg kawin ngan duda?Bro Kev and Xis, ampun ya habib….maaf ye kalau tersinggung. nasihat saja… untuk saya juga.

  • Again from me… hehe Jena and Goddess of Venus… i got u…
    My mom used to condemn my cousin who marries a widower. So did my other aunts. My sis finally marries a widower with one son after he got divorced. Just like what Siti went thru. Dah cerai cuma surat je belum keluar pastu baru nak berkawan. But then, of course mmg tabiat manusia suka buat spekulasi.. home-wrecker… gatal bala bla bla… because the society still tend to punish women, hell now I’m sounding like a feminists lol! Nah… i’m lucky to be a man.
    kalau anak dara kawin dgn duda, org kutuk anak dara tu bukan si duda. kalau kevin ke atau xis kawin dgn wanita kaya yg berumur for her kerana cinta sejati (bukan sebab duit), org akan kutuk pompuan tua tu… tak sedar diri dah kerepot nak kawin dgn anak ikan kuali-Asian… see what i mean, it’s hard for them, women. but then andaikatalah (of course u can say NO WAY JOSE – but then fate is fate) u ‘terkawin’ dgn Datuk Khaty aged 47, multimillionaire, pemilik franchise gym, muka a la demi moore and ur like Ashton Kutcher… and u both know each other better … I wonder how u guys are going to face it? Give it in or proceed?

    Macam lagu Siti.. pernahkah kau bermimpi seketika berada di tempatku?

    Bro Xis, jangan buat andaian dia merampas suami org, mana tau kot2 esok u kawin pastu tak kekal pastu jatuh cinta pulak dgn Ina, penyanyi nasyid… pendek kata, (i’m not defending siti or anything) just to remind us all, including myself, jgn menaruh sangka yg buruk, jgn condemn org sebab kita tak tau apa akan berlakudalam hidup kita. bak kata Karam Singh, pulang paku buah keras. Meludah ke langit, akhirnya jatuh ke muka sendiri…

    my mom cuba2 nak sorokkan cucu tiri tu but then I told her, sooner or later ppl will know, lebih org tau dari mula… actually, she is just worried her sister (my aunt) would bad-mouth my sis. but then again… that aunt also marries a widower with 1 son! haha.. i hope this is not a family curse or is it a lesson for us all not to bad-mouthed anak dara yg kawin ngan duda?

    Bro Kev and Xis, ampun ya habib….
    maaf ye kalau tersinggung. nasihat saja… untuk saya juga.

  • Hah! Kevin pun sibuk nak kira ratings ye? RTM hari ni menafikan integriti ratings ni. Tapi mengaku je laa.. berbanding dgn post yang lain, you dapat komen paling banyak untuk post yang ini sebab obviously) it’s about Siti. Memang pelaris, bijak sungguh Kevin ni haha! People hate her but they still wanna talk and see what she does. Nicht ist das recht?

  • Hah! Kevin pun sibuk nak kira ratings ye? RTM hari ni menafikan integriti ratings ni. Tapi mengaku je laa.. berbanding dgn post yang lain, you dapat komen paling banyak untuk post yang ini sebab obviously) it’s about Siti. Memang pelaris, bijak sungguh Kevin ni haha! People hate her but they still wanna talk and see what she does. Nicht ist das recht?

  • malbatt, sori – got carried away by emotions there… Didnt realise I actually mentioned or implied they would divorce. Anyway, I take it back (everything I said). Not really dengki with her. Nothing to dengki about anyway, coz she leads a totally different lifestyle altogether. Just saddened by the fact that Malaysians are more interested and excited when it comes to celebrities getting married or when their engagement called off. Why not for once, during prime time, our national tv’s broadcast programmes like recitals of Qur’an, Islamic forum etc etc. People (especially youngsters) might object to the ideas at first, but after a while, they might be drawn to such programmes and ask for more. Wallahua’lam, sori again, now I get a bit religious here, and not implying that I’m such a religious person per se ok! Signing off..

  • malbatt, sori – got carried away by emotions there… Didnt realise I actually mentioned or implied they would divorce. Anyway, I take it back (everything I said). Not really dengki with her. Nothing to dengki about anyway, coz she leads a totally different lifestyle altogether. Just saddened by the fact that Malaysians are more interested and excited when it comes to celebrities getting married or when their engagement called off. Why not for once, during prime time, our national tv’s broadcast programmes like recitals of Qur’an, Islamic forum etc etc. People (especially youngsters) might object to the ideas at first, but after a while, they might be drawn to such programmes and ask for more. Wallahua’lam, sori again, now I get a bit religious here, and not implying that I’m such a religious person per se ok! Signing off..

  • Hey Abdun, we have almost the same name. U tak tgk ke Akademi Al-Quran? Prime time tu ooopsss hehe ‘Akademi’ is a sensitive wird here huhu :) But u r right about us Malaysians focusing too much on those stuffs. Tapi kan, Siti kahwin (hopefully) sekali jek, maybe sebab tu TV3 broadcast berminggu-minggu. I think satu malam cukup kot. Kita tgk je laaa majlis Kevin nanti macam mana pulak.. hehe (Bila ek?)

  • Hey Abdun, we have almost the same name. U tak tgk ke Akademi Al-Quran? Prime time tu ooopsss hehe ‘Akademi’ is a sensitive wird here huhu :) But u r right about us Malaysians focusing too much on those stuffs. Tapi kan, Siti kahwin (hopefully) sekali jek, maybe sebab tu TV3 broadcast berminggu-minggu. I think satu malam cukup kot. Kita tgk je laaa majlis Kevin nanti macam mana pulak.. hehe (Bila ek?)

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