My 10 Quick First Date Tips

My Dating Game

Since I don’t need my game no more hahahahah, I’ll give you a little insight into my “game”… and yes, like it or not….its a game. Its tiring but either play along or play with yourself! hahahahah…..here it is:

  1. 1.

    Not every girl is going to like me…..but thats ok. There’s plenty of fish in the sea. But you have to equip yourself properly laa.

  2. 2.

    Keep the first date light and simple…talk about easy topics

  3. 3.

    Figure her out. what kind of girl is she? more traditional? out-going? Once you know, you can “plan” your approach.

  4. 4.

    Be funny! not stupid funny…..this is where you gotta figure her out. Don’t force your joke and don’t tell joke like “i know this joke…..”. You wanna keep her at ease.

  5. 5.

    Make the first date about her…not me…why? coz the more I talk about myself the more I may reveal about my slip-ups, weird habits etc….of course she’ll find out some day but first goal is to get her to like me…not to scare her off

  6. 6.

    No touching! if shes interest, her body language will show if shes interest. Again, no touching.

  7. 7.

    Don’t ask 2 many questions! Its not an interview.

  8. 8.

    Show that you enjoy her company but maintain control over the entire date.

  9. 9.

    Practice, practice, practice!

  10. 10.

    My overall goal for a date would be: To figure her out and make her fall for me without she thinking that I’m into her.

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    After the date: I usually don’t call right after….maybe a couple of days….you don’t wanna be desperate.

All in all, there are no clear guidelines…… its all about playing your game right…and you gotta be able to suit your game towards your opponent (your date lah)…. you are not always going to win….but no matter how good you are, or not, you only need to win once….. :)


Kevin Zahri

Hi, my name is Kevin Zahri or affectionately known as Cikgu Fitness. I am an award winning health and fitness influencer, wellness activist based Malaysia and founder of this regions largest weight loss movement called Jom Kurus ... oh and a member of MENSA.

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